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Summer evangelism series (continued)

Earlier this summer, I shared some thoughts on “Sharing our Light with the World.” I’ll offer some additional thoughts here on the topic of evangelism.

What does it mean to be a witness for faith?

On Palm Sunday afternoon, I almost ran over a church lady (a kingdom hall lady, from the Jehovah’s Witnesses). My wife and I got in our car, opened the garage door with the remote, were about to back out of the garage, and suddenly there she was, standing immediately behind us in the driveway. I stopped, got out, and talked to her. She was ever so urgent about inviting us to the Memorial of Jesus’ Death that they were observing that week. I was rather impatient with her, I’ll admit. I advised her that what she had done was not safe. She went on her way to the next house. She was well-meaning in her efforts, but probably not particularly successful.

On Memorial Day weekend, I traveled to Oregon. As our daughter got us from the airport and drove us into Portland, I was struck by some confrontational billboards along the roadways. In big, bold letters, one said, “Real Christians OBEY Jesus’ teachings.” Another, in stark white lettering on a black background, said, “Are you preparing to meet Jesus?” I did not call the number on the billboards for more information. It seemed the main thing they wanted you to know about Jesus is that he’s going to judge you (which is not, in fact, the main thing to know about Jesus).  Portland is the least religiously-affiliated city in the United States.* The traditionalist religious organization putting up those billboards** was not likely to win anyone over that way.

When I was a young man studying for ministry, I was trained by a traditionalist religious organization. We were taught not to spend much time on small talk when doing outreach. We were to get to the big question to ask: “If you were to die tonight, where would you be?” There was a planned outline for talking about where people thought they’d be spending eternity and why. I will say, the template they gave us for such conversations did emphasize Jesus as our Savior (not as someone eager to judge you for your failures). Still, though, it was a formula, a contrived conversation. They wanted us to stick close to the script to gain converts and bring them into the church.

In my early years working in ministry, I soon abandoned that formula and the idea that the goal was to gain converts for our church. More and more, ministry seemed to be about listening to people, understanding their hopes, their hurts, their needs, their questions, and responding with grace and concern in Christ. The Lord does not send us out into the world to build our own fiefdoms; he sends us as ambassadors of his kingdom. I started talking with people in more open-ended ways, not trying to force an outcome. The goal wasn’t about me succeeding in outreach, or about our local congregation gaining more members, or about hurrying people to some moment of conversion. 

When Jesus tells us, “You are the light of the world” (Matthew 5:14) and “let your light shine before others” (Matthew 5:16), that does not mean we are to blind others by confronting them as if we’re shining a high-beam flashlight in their face. Yes, I know Paul was blinded along the Damascus Road by Jesus himself, and Elijah called down fire from heaven over against the prophets of Baal. But in those instances, someone was so vehemently going against the will of God that something drastic had to be done. More generally, in our day-to-day lives with neighbors in our communities, we are not called to be confrontationalto put up billboards or ask someone sitting next to you on an airplane, “If you were to die today, where would you be?” (In my schooldays, that was the scenario used in the evangelism training video: a conversation with a stranger on an airplane. That’s perhaps the worst place and time to ask someone such a question!) 

What we are called to do as gospel witnesses is to glow warmly with the love of Christ, to be a beacon of hopeshowing others the way to the safety and confidence that we’ve found in Jesus. 

Our lives as witnesses are like what Jesus told a man he had just healed, who had been possessed by many demons. Ever so grateful for the miracle Jesus had performed in his life, the man wanted nothing more than to follow Jesus and be with Jesus 24/7. But Jesus said to him: “Return to your home, and declare how much God has done for you” (Luke 8:39). His mission in life was to share with those around him his joy in Jesus, what God has done and can do. This is our mission in life, too.

We may yearn just to sit in Jesus’ presence and bask in his teaching, whereas talking with others about Jesus seems too much of a challenge for us. We’re content sitting in our church pews, listening. We may be uncomfortable sitting across a kitchen table or coffee shop table, talking spiritual realities with others. When I came to a congregation I once served, I learned that the evangelism committee had been meeting regularly, but had not ventured out beyond their meetings. They kept training and training on how to do evangelism, but hesitated to go out and have spiritual conversations. They never felt ready, never felt like they knew enough. I think they were too stuck on that formula or template approach that I had been taught (and they were being taught). The formula seemed simple, but also made them feel they needed a pre-scripted answer for every question or objection that might come up in a conversation.  

Jesus obviously doesn’t think we need to be experts before we speak in his name to others. The man Jesus had cleansed of demons had, up until then, been deeply distressed. “For a long time he had not worn any clothes, and he did not live in a house but in the tombs” (Luke 8:27). Yet immediately after restoring that man to health and wholeness, Jesus told him to talk in his hometown about how much God had done for him. That’s a good model for each of us. Being a witness for the faith is personal and relational. It’s us talking with others about our hurts, our needs, and the help we have in Jesus—and their hurts, their needs, and the help they may find in Jesus. As we approach conversations with others, we can admit that we are broken people, that we’ve had our own demons and problems. We’re not going to be perfect. We’re not going to have some foolproof strategy or guaranteed results. We’re not marketers trying to sell Jesus or the church. We’re just people; we just need to be real and genuine and human and hurting and be WITH one another as we share the love we have found in Jesus. The apostle Paul said, “If those who are nothing think they are something, they deceive themselves” (Galatians 6:2), urging us, in our frailty, in our shared humanity, to “bear one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:1).

In the midst of his ministry, when Jesus sent 72 of his disciples in pairs to go ahead of him to towns where he was planning to go (Luke 10:1), the instructions he gave them were not complicated. The mission focused on creating relationships. He told his teams, “Whatever house you enter, first say, ‘Peace to this house!’  And if anyone is there who shares in peace, your peace will rest on that person …. Whenever you enter a town and its people welcome you, eat what is set before you; …cure the sick who are there, and say to them, ‘The kingdom of God has come near to you’” (Luke 10:1-9). I suppose when we read something like that, we get hung up on the idea of “curing the sick.” We think, “Doing outreach must have been easy if Jesus gave them the ability to do miracles to cure the sick!”  But did that actually make things easier? Was Jesus’ own ministry easier because he could exorcise demons and heal diseases? In the region of the Gerasenes, where Jesus had cast a legion of demons out of that one man, the people of the region asked Jesus to leave because they were afraid of him (Luke 8:37). In other places, Jesus was met with suspicion and hostility by religious authorities on account of his teaching and the miracles he did. Ultimately, they crucified him.

We may not have powers to provide miracle cures for people’s illnesses, but we do always have something powerful in Jesus. We have comfort in Jesus’ cross, knowing what he suffered for us, and in his resurrection, securing our hope. We cling to one another and to Christ when we face sicknesses and death and all sorts of troubles. As Dr. Andrew Root of Luther Seminary has said, evangelism is not about some sort of strategy, it is an “embodied way of participating with people where Jesus Christ is present. It is a way God moves concretely in our lives and is a companion during the joys and sorrows in human life”—particularly in times of sorrow.*** Being an evangelist is simply being a person believing in Jesus, anchored in faith, who is willing to be with others in their struggles and search with others in their questions, and call on the Lord together in prayer with others when they desire hope and healing.


* See The Oregonian, March 12, 2025.
** See Forward, May 15, 2023.
*** Reframing Evangelism: Following Jesus into Sorrow,” Pivot Podcast, 2025.


Scripture quotations, except where otherwise indicated, are from the New Revised Standard Version Bible, copyright © 1989 National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

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All God’s children have a voice

Each soul speaks in their own way

Today is the 11th anniversary of The Electric Gospel blog. (I hadn’t been paying attention last year, and missed marking the 10th anniversary.) This project started March 15, 2014, with a post from one of the ministry school students I was instructing. Allow me to share the origin story with you, which tells you something about this blog’s purpose.

In my classes, I encouraged students to compose devotional writings in their own voice and style. Much of the ministry training they received gave them templates and formulas they were told to follow. Their writings tended to be formulaic and stilted as a result. I wanted them to take in spiritual truths and express them in their own way, writing from their hearts. When they did, their expressions of faith spoke with grace and strength. I sent some of the most poignant pieces to the editors of the national church organization’s monthly magazine, and several students’ articles were published there.

One such student, Mariah, had dated someone who was controlling and overbearing. He maintained that male dominance in relationships was the biblically-commanded way. Mariah had a different perspective. She wrote about how this man had made her feel worthless and her gifts and talents unappreciated. When I sent Mariah’s article to be considered for publication by the national magazine, the assistant editors (both of them women) greatly appreciated her words. They put the article onto their schedule for an upcoming month’s issue. When it came time for the article to proceed to publication, I received communication from the magazine’s lead editor (a man). He had decided Mariah’s personal story needed editing. He provided his heavily altered rewrite of the article. He said that if the author agreed to the rewritten version, he would allow it in the magazine in that form. If she did not consent to the edited version, then the article would not be published. His version robbed Mariah’s original writing of her unique voice. It now sounded like it was composed by a staid, formal, traditional, clergy-trained man. It had become very much his writing, not hers—coming from his frame of reference, not hers. Mariah was hurt. She would not allow the magazine to run the editor’s version with her name listed as “author”—and I wholeheartedly supported her. I conveyed Mariah’s decision to the magazine editor, along with my own objections to how he had handled the matter. 

As Mariah and I talked, I said I’d start a place of my own online to feature selections of spiritual writing from students. I wanted Mariah’s article to be the first to be featured. She embraced the idea (not just for herself, but also for her fellow student writers). Thus, The Electric Gospel blogsite was born. 

You can read Mariah’s original piece here (just as she wrote it): “I Will Respect You.”

In those years of posting students’ work to the blog pages, I sought to give a forum to those who pressed against rigid expectations and situations that made them feel devalued.

There was a pre-seminary student who felt he wasn’t enough. He struggled to keep up with the college’s curriculum and to fit in with his classmates. When he stopped trying to compose something according to formulas dictated to him and wrote what he was feeling in his heart, his words sang with deep intensity.  (His article: “A Cry from the Depths of One’s Heart.”)

There was a devout woman from a Caribbean nation who came to the college, older than the typical college students around her. She experienced implicit bias and ageism and cliquishness on the campus, which kept her feeling like she didn’t belong (in a place where everyone should have felt embraced and welcomed). I urge you to read her impassioned plea: “Do We Really Love Each Other in the Church?”

In the years since I stopped teaching, I’ve used this blog as a place for some of my own writing. I’ve tried to highlight our imperative to value every individual, to listen to each person’s voice.  I’ll offer a couple of examples of past posts of mine here that might be worth your time to go back and read:

All of God’s children have a voice. Each soul speaks in their own special way. Hopefully this blog over the past 10+ years has been a place where the perspectives of Christ’s people from many walks of life have been honored and valued. 

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Do not think of yourself more highly than you should. Instead, be modest in your thinking, and judge yourself according to the amount of faith that God has given you. We have many parts in the one body, and all these parts have different functions. In the same way, though we are many, we are one body in union with Christ, and we are all joined to each other as different parts of one body. So we are to use our different gifts in accordance with the grace that God has given us. If our gift is to speak God’s message, we should do it according to the faith that we have (Romans 12:3-6—Good News Translation).

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A letter to my peers, under pressure

by Hannah Mielke

Originally published on the Electric Gospel on March 10, 2017, this is a letter intended for young Christians who are feeling the pressures of the world around them. It is intended to remind them of their sin, but more importantly to remind them of God’s love, encouragement and peace.

Thanks to social media, the modern generation is a tight-knit community.  Of course, it can be argued that person-to-person connections have a greater value. This is true; there is a large benefit to talking to someone in person. However, in-person connections are limited by distance and time. Social media allows an opportunity to forge connections with people all around the world. This is great; there is a network of support and encouragement for everyone who may need it.  However, there is a downside. We violate this command: “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (Ephesians 4:29). I am guilty of this and I know you are as well. It is so easy to let negative and degrading words slip. Maybe to fit in, maybe to blow off some steam – pick your reason. Any words that are spoken, whether in person or online, have the potential to be heard, but social media can make that all the more likely. When words are exchanged in “the real world,” the speakers tend to be more careful of the other person’s feelings. The person is a real, physical, being who is standing before them. That physicality is lost on the Internet, and so it is even more vital to be careful about words that are exchanged through online posts.

When people are ridiculing you for something your life centers around, it can be hard to respect them.  Respect is a word that applies to every aspect of our lives.  We all know that we should respect our parents and others in authority. However, we sometimes forget just how far that respect should extend. Christ asks us to respect and show honor to those whom we may feel deserve the least respect from us.  We are the tools through with the Spirit changes hearts … and you never know whose heart is about to be softened.

What you say is a big deal. People judge you based on your words. This is especially true when it comes to poor language. You may not mean this intentionally, but people will judge your faith based on the words that come out of your mouth.  So “simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one”(Matthew 5:37).  If your language is filled with cuss words, you will not stick out from the coarse world around you. As Christians, God asks us to stick out, to be different. That difference can be hard. People who are different attract attention and not all that attention is good attention. However, we can face any amount of ridicule because Christ’s love protects us. He never leaves our side, and he sees what we are facing daily. He is pleased to call us his own.

Right now you are rolling your eyes, because you have heard this all before. I am not the first one to tell you that you are sinful. Every generation looks down on the generation after them. They judge those younger than them in every way possible. It seems like the judgment is especially strong for the youth today.  We have different beliefs than the generation that came before us. God understands those struggles, and he will see you through them. He speaks straight to your soul: “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity” (1 Timothy 4:12).
One of the struggles that young people face every day is anxiety about their lives ahead. More people speaking out about those fears has led to an increased awareness of mental health in young adults. Anxiety is overwhelming and frustrating. God knows that, and he has spoken about it. “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7).   God understands; Christ promises peace.

You know those days when your worries are so great that you feel that you are nothing special? Well, guess what?  It is that feeling that makes you special. It’s okay to be a bland person. God took the blank canvas of your life and turned it into a breathtaking piece of art.  Some of my favorite verses in the Bible are these:  “But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things–and the things that are not–to nullify the things that are” (1 Corinthians 1:27-28).

So don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young. Live in truth and purity.  God will do amazing things with you.
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I Will Respect You

Originally published on The Electric Gospel on March 15, 2014.

A young woman speaks from her own difficult experience about what healthy man-woman relationships look like.

I Will Respect You

by Mariah Wild

It is in the look she gives him, that he just does not seem to understand. It is in her sighs when his back is turned. It is in her tears that she has to cry alone.

A woman, she expresses herself through emotions and by them is how she loves deeply and hurts most. Yet those same emotions have the ability inexplicably to trip her up when they prevent her from leaving an unhealthy relationship. She has found herself having allowed an emotional attachment to have taken place between her and her man, one that has now become a detriment to her when the questions arise. Why is he asking me to “submit” to him, when I do not feel comfortable doing that? Why am I getting the feeling that I am worthless? How much does it hurt when he does not appreciate my personal gifts and talents that God has blessed me with?

A woman does not easily acknowledge that her boyfriend is mistreating her. And once she is able to remove the rose tinted sunglasses rather than peeking over the top every once in a while to see the truth, what does she do then? She forces herself to go back and take a deeper look at what the things she thought she was doing wrong the whole time, coming to the conclusion that the problem is not so much her as was him. She searches for the key to this downward spiral. She wants to find what was driving him to be this way, and how had she been so taken in by him while being misled.

I was once this woman, and if your man was anything like the male counterpart I had at one time, even though he was a Christian, he had a misinterpretation of this Bible passage. Perhaps, hurt wife or girlfriend, you can see that this is where your man also derived his own ideas.
“Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.” (Colossians 3:18)

The “submit” in this passage, if interpreted correctly, is about respect. Respect your husband as God asks us to. Men look for this respect, as they look for the encouragement of that we are proud of them. We can be proud of our men in many circumstances and give them the respect that they look for. This becomes a challenge however, when they mistreat us or when they see submission as a form of servitude or forceful compliance in terms of physical affection.

We cannot as women make the men in our lives re-evaluate themselves. Rather we can offer another Bible verse to encourage men to make the adjustment for their women that God has entrusted them to care for; “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy.” (Ephesians 5:25)

Christ is the ultimate example for how men should love their women. Christ was the first to love all of us and was willing to show that love even to the point of laying down his life on the cross. When men have Christ in their hearts, love and commitment and unselfish sacrifice will flow from them to their wives, their own beloved. When women see and feel this, their men are truly worth respecting.

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